03 May 2013

The Small Things in Life

Sometimes its the smallest things that matter to us in life and those little things can make a huge difference.  I often find that when I'm dealing with someone who was troubled for any reason,  I can usually pull them aside, listen to their heart cry and validate them as a person, and they will immediately improve.  Many times, with many different behaviors and situations, that's all a person needs.  To know that somebody in the world completely understands them and is willing to work with them on their own level.

Did you know that...


Because first of all, you don't know what you're going to encounter today and getting a freak phone call about someone in your family could happen anytime.  Be careful to imagine what you could be going through and thankful that its only this or that..

Which brings me to the point of stating that you don't know what someone else is going through.  I personally, after having spent 31 years in customer service,  automatically put this customer service face on at my front door.  I don't want everybody to know what I'm going through and I'm pretty sure alot of people are that way.  Everybody has a mask and we wear it every day, whether we love our lives or hate them.  I also have personally seen that people who "love their lives" so much are running from their emotions that are falling apart inside them and if you give them about a year or two, they fall apart and change.  
Every rose has its thorn.  We all have a past.  But that is what made us who we are today and helps mold us into who we will be tomorrow.  

With that all being said, please feel free to share a smile with a random person or hold the door.  That could be the difference in someone else's day.   You never know what someone else has gone through.

Kahala Lei
Blood Money Spokenword
copyright 2013

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